[Noisebridge-discuss] Tomorrow night's meeting [Oh you know if it's me it's drama]

Nicholas Granado ngranado at gmail.com
Mon Apr 9 21:31:27 PDT 2012


hi justin,

that's great you voiced your opinion. YOU SPIT ON SOMEONE. your
contribution(s) is nothing but DRAMA. you should not be allowed to be apart
of this community.

nick



On Mon, Apr 9, 2012 at 9:01 PM, Justin Doerr <justinsfca at gmail.com> wrote:

> I definitely understand where you are coming from. I don't have as much of
> an interest as I used to in dragging my personal relations onto a public
> forum for everyone to see, however I feel I am left in an awkward position
> where I have no means of defending myself unless I voice my opinion
> publicly. Pulling Robert aside to talk privately about a problematic
> situation has been done before by me on numerous occasions. I feel like I'm
> dealing with a Kindergartner. Just try having a conversation in private
> with him involving any sort of criticism, be it constructive or destructive
> and just see what happens, and you'll know precisely what I'm talking
> about. I am very comfortable with the idea of mediation either immediately
> before or after the meeting, but the point I'm making is that I've been
> disrespected enough to the point where I don't care how Robert feels and if
> he feels uncomfortable then I don't know what to tell him, other than "I'm
> sorry you feel that way." I can't wait around for him to get over something
> and refuse to cooperate when all I honestly want to do is come back and
> hack and be productive in taking advantage of all that NB has to offer, as
> opposed to instigating drama. It isn't Robert's position for him to be
> commanding whether I stay or go, because it isn't his home, it's a public
> space. I'm not trying to be an asshole. I'm just done with our drama and
> the way I feel I am being treated as a result of all of it. Meetings to me,
> as opposed to any other time at Noisebridge, are the best way to get
> whatever personal problems I'm having with any issues at all off of my
> chest. No hard feelings btw. Just voicing.
>  On Apr 9, 2012 8:05 PM, "Gavin Knight" <gnnrok at gmail.com> wrote:
>
>> As I remember, it was discussed that you would finish mediation before
>> trying to
>> come back to the meetings.
>>
>> I trust that, although you would like to share your thoughts about the
>> events, you realize that
>> this situation is between you and Robert, and rehashing this in a
>> noisebridge does not solve
>> the dispute.
>>
>> Maybe alternatively you could schedule the mediation before or after the
>> meeting, and figure
>> out a solution that way.
>>
>> -Gavin
>>
>
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