[Noisebridge-discuss] people who we don't want around, and a Change in the Axial Tilt of our Planet.
xonimmortal at yahoo.com
Sun Mar 24 06:08:12 UTC 2013
Frankly, it is the nature of those with narcissistic personalities and erotophilia tendencies (two of the most commonly-seen pathologies in stalkers and domestic abusers) to keep pushing and trying to jump back into the spotlight.
For reference, you can probably count on him doing one or more of the following:
a) "forgiving" people for taking action against him (usually paired with being "understanding" about everybody else's "faults")
b) giving "permission" for these actions, often as if the actions were taken only in order to keep up appearances,
c) attacking others, often insinuating unattractiveness, lesser intelligence, or severe mental problems, often as "evidence" of their unsuitability as friends or romantic partners,
d) various attempts to paint his own actions as being necessary and rational in the face of the pre-supposed irrational behavior of his detractors
e) fabricated or misrepresented past actions of his detractors (often refering back to [d])
There are more, but I don't have access to the full list at the moment. These are the most common, though.
One word of caution: these actions are meant to persuade everyone that perhaps it would have been easier to just ignore his actions, or to inject an element of doubt. Don't be fooled. If anything, the actions taken by consensus were mild.
One of the reasons that I kept out of this was that, as an ordained minister, I am required, by law, to immediately contact the authorities if it becomes apparent that a person is a danger to others. I knew that if I did so, it would upset a lot of members, so I stayed away from the situation completely. But if this continues or escalates further, I will have little choice.
Date: Saturday, March 23, 2013 10:37:40 pm
To: "rachel lyra hospodar" <rachelyra at gmail.com>
Cc: rack at lists.noisebridge.net, NoiseBridge Discuss <noisebridge-discuss at lists.noisebridge.net>
From: "Andrew Byrne" <andrew at pachakutech.com>
Subject: Re: [Noisebridge-discuss] people who we don't want around, and a Change in the Axial Tilt of our Planet.
So yeah, he's returned.
On Mar 23, 2013 2:56 PM, "rachel lyra hospodar" <rachelyra at gmail.com> wrote:
> Hey all,
> Curious if others are bothered by Shawn posting to discuss, since we
> banned him from the community for being a creepy stalker. Especially given
> that the tone of his recent post is all 'LOL I should return'.
> I know creating a sock puppet email account is easy enough but I would
> still feel more comfortable if we had some kind of community response to
> this asshole behavior, ie, taking him off the list or otherwise blocking
> his ability to post to it using the same identity he used to stalk and
> harass members of our community.
> On Mar 22, 2013 11:10 AM, "Shawn" <shawnlandden at gmail.com> wrote:
>> Guess the only person that ever washed dishes at NoiseBridge has to
>> come back to town ;)
>> On 3/21/13, Zachary Morriss <zmorriss at gmail.com> wrote:
>> > I heed this call, and will begin stacking dishes post haste. Now who
>> > volunteer to clean Lillian's brains off the walls after she sees this
>> > wonderful pile of dirty dishes in the sink?
>> > All joking aside, I think it's a wonderful request! I generally run into
>> > problems when cleaning the space of not wanting to trash someone's work
>> > progress, so please don't mistake me for a meth-head, should I be caught
>> > cleaning, and if you have a WIP, make a little extra effort to tidy when
>> > done these next 10 days, lest I sell your project for a quick thrill.
>> > Zach
>> > On Thu, Mar 21, 2013 at 6:55 PM, Lillian Fleurs
>> > <lillian.fleurs at gmail.com>wrote:
>> >> Alternatively titled: Noisebridge Spring Cleaning?
>> >> So due to the nature of this season and the fact that there's this big
>> >> Noisebridge fundraiser happening at the end of the month, I've been
>> >> looking
>> >> around the space and noticing messes everywhere. Now granted, as much
>> >> I
>> >> would like to see this space clean in time for the
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